Monalisa Stephen, a Nigerian entertainer and content maker, has shared her encounters in regards to an abusive relationship.
In a new meeting with Saturday Beats, she uncovered that she didn`t perceive the indications of maltreatment until she was exposed to actual savagery.
She said, “I didn’t really know it was a thing. I used to hear other women talk about it, but I didn’t think it would happen to me. I used to believe, ‘I’m a huge woman with a big body, why would anyone want to beat me?’ But it has nothing to do with your body.
“You can be abused whether you’re fat or not. When I got the first slap, I was shocked. What led to the slap wasn’t even worth it. I was dazed. The experience was unexpected, and I felt really bad because this was someone I trusted. Even though he was below my league, I lowered my standards to date him.
“This person kept beating me and humiliating me. I asked him, ‘Why do you keep doing this to me?’ and he said his friend told him that people like me need to be ‘bent’ so he could dominate me. That made me see some men in a different light.”
She further noticed that while many expect well-known people don`t confront difficulties, the fact of the matter is a remarkable inverse. Furthermore, she referenced that a few people, including the individuals who seek after associations with them, view superstars as likely targets.
